Sleeping pattern

usually, bb will sleep around 8 plus to 9pm.. or much earlier. nowadays, even after her night feeding around 7 plus, she refuses to sleep.

She will yawn, but when we put her in her spring cot, she will turn over to become "spider-man" u know.. on fours in her cot .. like hanging on net.. *eye rolling* if we put her in her cot.. she will be performing her standing stunt.. let go hand.. fall, stand,let go hand, fall.. for many may times..after she is bored, she will be making noises..

I read many articles on how to make bb sleep on their own, one of the method is to let them cry until they fall to sleep after they are tired. so i thought bb now already 9 months plus, should be able to try this method, so yesterday again, she acted up, refuse to sleep.

I bring her to her cot, dim the light, close the door, then let her stay in her cot. she plays for awhile, then started making noise, wanted to be out from her cot. i ignore her, she is like pleading me to carry her out from her cot.. she then started crying.. getting louder and louder.. climb up and down.. she can still yawn whne crying.. it shows that she is very sleepy but refuse to sleep..

i have to be cruel to continue to ignore her..but my mum cant stand it, come in and carry her out.. SOB.. wasted my effort.. wasted bb's crying..

mum said this method is not good, cos it will scare bb..make her not happy..sigh.. i guess i cant use this method anymore.. since bb has her grandma to protect her..